Inciting hatred – a thought for Ascension day

Many years ago, I worked as manager of a large storage warehouse – it was towards the end of the hazy days when smoking was allowed in the warehouse, and it was not uncommon for my staff to be seen whizzing around on their diesel powered forklift trucks with cigarette in hand. Of course, this was not the best thing to do, especially when the dealing with various palletised goods, including paper products, and so I decided, along with those at head Office that the fags must go – which didn’t go down too well.

Things settled after a month or so, and fag breaks were spent in the yard outside – or so I thought.

One busy morning, I sat with my foreman and staff and talked through the schedule for the day, stating clearly how things were to be done. All agreed, which was good because I had a meeting up North that day and didn’t want calls from head office complaining that staff were slacking in my absence. I got to the car and realised that I had left my brick , aka mobile phone, on my desk, so I ran back into the warehouse to hear my foreman, who had just lit up inside the warehouse saying, ‘so we will do it my way’ . it wasn’t just the foreman – the entire staff group were standing there with cigarettes in hands – I will leave the rest of the story to your imagination !

Today is Ascension day – the day when we recall Jesus’ ascension – his leaving this planet and returning to God. Before he did so, you will recall, he promised the descent of the Holy Spirit, which we commemorate in a few weeks time. So, His work done, teachings imparted, influence felt – and we are now left to take those teachings, His message and influence and share them with others – Simple ! Oh dear, have I got that wrong?

When I think back over my relatively short life (I am only 46 !) I have seen so very many changes, not least in the matter of social exclusion and equality. Derogatory terms, and legal exclusion that I grew up with in the 70’s are now long gone, and thank God they are. It is illegal now to incite religious hatred, to condemn, exclude or criticise another on the basis of belief, sexuality, gender etc etc. In that respect we live in a much more tolerant and holistic society than ever before, although we are far from perfect. There is , however, a loop hole. No, its not a legal loop hole, something the legislators have overlooked, the law is quite clear, the loop hole comes in the form of an elevated box – the pulpit.

It’s one of my bug bears – and something that gets me hot under the collar – why is it morally , legally and sociologically wrong to publicly condemn or discriminate against another on the grounds of religion EXCEPT when doing so from the pulpit? Arrrrgh ! It gets worse, why oh why, when Jesus left us all the apparatus for a loving, tolerant and inclusive expression of our Spirituality and faith do we light up our proverbial fags once he’s out of the building and do it ‘our way’?

I’ve been about a bit – although until fairly recently a life long Anglican, I have visited and attended other Churches in the past – I’ve heard Catholics slagging off protestants, Baptists decrying Anglicans and the practices of the local vicar, Methodists calling the Pope the Anti-Christ , and all this I saw daily in the all embracing Church of England.

Now I need to be careful here not to fall into exactly the same trap as those practices I am commenting on – this isn’t a slagging off blog entry, rather an observation. For the un-initiated, the dear old Church of England embraces a whole host of traditions. At one end of the ecclesial spectrum are the evangelicals, which include charismatics – those whose understanding of ‘church’ is deeply reformed and protestant – organs are ditched for electric guitars and some even defy Canon law by leading worship without robes. At the other extreme are the Anglo Catholics – those who believe that the Church of England is Catholic (with a big ‘c’), who use the Roman Rites (which they do illegally), wear vestments, call the Holy Communion, Mass – which again contravenes not only Canon Law but also Anglican Eucharistic Theology, and continue a number of practices that were ousted by Rome at the Second Vatican Council. In between these two extremes are all sorts of traditions and combinations – the richness of the Church of England !

But that’s just what we see on the surface. At both extremes are powerful groups, “Reform’ at the Evangelical end and “Forward in Faith’ at the Catholic. Both of these groups act as a safe haven for those concerned to keep the nature of the Church, as they perceive it, intact. Both of these groups actively condemn and campaign against women’s Ministry, they openly refuse ordination from Bishops who ordain Women, and many have been known to make hurtful and nasty comments towards women in Ministry within their areas. AND THEY GET AWAY WITH IT ! As a former Priest Colleague of mine once so eloquently put it, ‘if they don’t like the policies of the Church, those in Reform should bugger off and become Baptists, and the Forward in Faith lot should sod off to Rome’ (his words, not mine – but I see his point). Its not just women who are discriminated against and who are on the receiving end of verbal and emotional abuse by clergy in these groups and from the pulpit, homosexuals, divorcees, lone parents are all fair game, and it doesn’t end there. The very establishment that actively stands up for and seeks to live out the message of Jesus Christ so often falls so far short of doing so and instead portrays exclusivity and discrimination – Jesus was in effect saying, get out there, do the things I have told you, live the way I have shown you – and Christians the world over are saying YES Lord – but once His back is turned, they will instead do it THEIR way and feel it is OK to incite hatred, discrimination and the pain that this causes.

Isn’t it time that we went back to basics? That we looked at who Jesus himself condemned – hey that’s really interesting, it wasn’t the social outcasts, the roman centurion, the woman at the well etc etc – it was the religious leaders who felt that they could use their belief system to exclude , condemn and hurt others – things haven’t changed much, have they?

A thought for Holy Week – beyond rejection.

Have you ever experienced rejection?

It can be one of the most painful experiences we can ever face. What was once a part of our life is now, no longer – it is as if something has been torn out of us – it leaves us empty, in pain, fractured, hurting and without hope.

I have faced rejection in my life – and lived to tell the tale. The most poignant Rejection Moment sprung to mind as I reflected on the readings on Palm Sunday – Jesus, amidst tumultuous noise , rejoicing, celebration and expectation, entered into Jerusalem – a few days later, those very same voices demanded his death. My Rejection Moment was, of course no where near as dramatic, but equally not without parallel. I arrived one day as Rector of a new Parish amidst great rejoicing and support from the wider establishment. The very people who had offered the warmest welcome were the very ones crying out for and demanding my own metaphorical crucifixion some three years later. Those who were at the forefront of demanding Jesus’ life were the upstanding, holy religious leaders, pillars of their community, purveyors of God’s Love – so too were my condemners – Christians eh?

Of course I moved on, began a new life, and a new Ministry, leaving behind the biggotry that I have long since forgiven – I just feel sad for them now. I wasn’t treated in any way like Jesus – I wasn’t stripped, whipped and nailed to a cross – although it was easy at times in the dark days following rejection to feel that in some small way I was.

Of course, once this evil deed had reached its natural conclusion and the religious leaders had muttered “good, that’s the end of that”, as we know Jesus returned, more powerful, more profound and more influential than he had ever been – their plot hadn’t worked, and now there was nothing that could be done to silence him.

Now, I am going to hesitate to draw any parallels – in what I might term the Post Rejection time – of course a new life and a new direction brings about a certain depth that has not been experienced before. For me, I have the freedom to debate, discuss, and express in a way that I couldn’t before (can’t rock the boat you see – had to be careful what I said).

Post Rejection life, IS Resurrection life in a way and it enables us to experience life afresh with the added experiences of hindsight and a bit of a reality check along the way. Unlike the risen Jesus we continued to be imperfect, flawed human beings – but loved , loved beyond our comprehension.

I share this thought for Holy Week, to give and bring hope to all who read it, especially those facing or who have faced rejection – it is not YOU and ME who is rejected, but the divine spark within us , and it is too often rejected by those who would call themselves followers of that spark. It is in life’s trips and falls, that we can see this more clearly, it is in being open to picking ourselves up, and seizing opportunities that the spark becomes a flame – illuminating both our lives, but also the lives of others. Those who reject simply continue with that spark that is within each of us – and a spark it continues to be, encased with a narrow shell where those things which feed the spark are prevented from entering.

Take the leap, be open, look forwards, not back, and look where that flame is leading.

I wish you all a Blessed Easter.

The Ecumenical Society for Peace

The Ecumenical Society for Peace has come into existence as part of the vision of our our call to share God’s Unconditional Love with all, without exception.

We are now ready to publicise the Society’s existence, aims etc, although an official launch date is yet to be agreed. This will probably be late summer, early autumn 2012.

Further details can be found at:

http://www.societyforpeace.org.uk

The Revd. Daniel Gibbins, Ordained Deacon. Saturday 17th March 2012

 

 

I am thrilled to announce, that the Revd. Daniel Gibbins was Ordained Deacon at the Ancient Guildhall, Kings Lynn, by his Grace, the Most Revd. Jonathan Blake, Archbishop of the Open Episcopal Church. Revd. Daniel was surrounded by family and friends , along with Anglican Clergy who attended and took part in the service. We were thrilled also to welcome Bishop elect Helen Hamilton, who drove down from Scotland to support Daniel.

Daniel becomes the second Cleric to be ordained in the Open Episcopal Church Diocese of the East of England in a matter of only a few months.

Daniel will begin his Ministry serving alongside Fr. Christopher as he continues his training. We are thrilled to have a Deacon with so many gifts in the Diocese.

Daniel even had a mention on Aled Jones’ show, ‘Good Morning Sunday’ on 18th March, giving thanks for his Ordination and Ministry in the Open Episcopal Church.

Revd. Daniel will preach this afternoon (19th March) at our Community Mass in Swaffham.

Press Release – Gay Marriage Welcomed by Inclusive Church

GAY MARRIAGE WELCOMED BY INCLUSIVE CHURCH

 

Cardinal Keith O’Brien, the leader of the Roman Catholic Church in Scotland says that gay marriage is an aberration and will lead Britain into further immorality and shame.

The Archbishop of Westminster’s and Southwark have issued a letter to be read across the country at Mass this weekend decrying gay marriage.

The Church of England remains opposed to allowing homosexuals to marry.

In stark contrast, the Presiding Archbishop’s Council of the Open Episcopal Church, a member of the International Council of Community Churches and through that body the World Council of Churches, and representing over 25,000 worshippers across the United Kingdom, has issued this pastoral letter to be read this weekend.

Dear Sisters and Brothers,

The scripture ( I John 4.16 ) states that God is love and those who abide in love abide in God and God abides in them.

The Open Episcopal Church promotes an inclusive vision of marriage.

Good relationships lie at the heart of stable society.

The most intimate expression of relationship is between two people who pledge themselves to each other to share their life and sexuality. Many choose to express this by marriage.

The integration of their lives at every level represents the union of love.

The journey towards that beneficial union is one fraught with challenge. Both partners need to mature in knowledge, grace and discipline to be able to approach or reach its heart.

There is no natural assumption that requires a specified difference between the partners based on gender, sexuality, race, religion, background, nationality etc.

There is clear evidence that such categories are imprecise.

For instance there are a spectrum of male and female psychological and physiological characteristics. Each person bears his or her own unique mix and marriage allows exploration beyond the basic categories and generalisations into the intricacy of personality.

Reserving the state of marriage to be the preserve of only two groups, male and female, is the application of apartheid.

The argument that procreation is the natural indicator of who can marry is flawed. Marriage is a human construct unrelated originally to procreation.

The multitudinous species of the world evolved and humans reproduced for tens of thousands of years without marriage.

Marriage law was developed to regulate the process of the exchange of property, part of which was seen to be the woman involved. It has undergone continual reform in response to the insights of each generation. It must in our own day.

In our society we strive to protect everyone’s human rights through equality and anti discrimination laws.

There is no one stereotypical family unit. Heterosexual and homosexual couples share their lives and sexuality, and they produce and raise children.

Galileo was tried by the inquisition, charged with heresy and in 1633 placed under house arrest by the Roman Catholic Church for stating what is known to be true, that the earth revolves around the sun. It was not until 1992 that Pope John Paul apologised for the way he was treated.

The Bible, quoted selectively in support of homophobic views, promotes behaviour and opinions, which the modern world would find intolerable, such as sex with slaves, concubines, genocide, infanticide and rape.

It should be noted also that the parents of Jesus were not married when he was born.

It is regrettable that the church is often seen to be a reactionary institution, resistant to the knowledge that invites progress and builds a just and harmonious society.

The Open Episcopal Church seeks to represent that which is best in a modern expression of church, offering its spirituality and its service to all the people of the world inclusively.

Since 2001, it has pioneered the provision of sacramental marriage ceremonies in this country for gay couples and has baptised their children.

It supports marriage being equally available for heterosexuals and homosexuals.

Archbishop Jonathan Blake

Also signed by:

Bishop Stewart Harrison – Bournemouth

Bishop Shelley Harstad-Smith – Mountain Ash

Bishop Sheila Wharmby – Southampton

Bishop Elect Helen Hamilton – Isle of Luing

Ms Pam Baker – Isle of Luing

Revd Lesley Dennis – Newcastle

Mrs Trish Dennis – Newcastle

Revd David Earl – Romsey

Mr Daniel Gibbins – Swaffham

Revd Peter Goodwin – Poole

Revd Tim Hodge – Taunton

Revd John Hyde – Poole

Revd Kersten Lawrence – Parkstone

Revd Simon Mapp – Tamworth

Revd Christopher Morgan – Cockley Cley

Mrs Natasha Morgan – Cockley Cley

Revd Suzanna Taylor-Neill – Lichfield

Mrs Zoe Taylor-Neill – Lichfield

Revd Mark Townsend – Leominster

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Archbishop Jonathan Blake

Bishops Haven

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Lent – and now for something completely different !

Now, I don’t normally do Lent – sounds a funny thing for a Priest to say, so let me explain.

Lent, like so many other Christian seasons has become secularised. That’s not too much of a problem of itself – if those on the edge of faith are walking along with us in some way during important seasons – so much the better. We can learn so much from other approaches. The reason I don’t normally “do” lent is a hangover from my childhood.

The local vicar, a grey haired thick spectacled chap visited our primary school when I was 7 or 8 and quite literally put the fear of God into me. I can’t remember exactly what he said, but it was fierce and furious – eating sweets and chocolate during Lent was a Sin – and we all knew the results of Sin (I had dreams about pitchforks and laughing goats for months !). So for years I followed the crowd and abstained from something during Lent – ensuring of course that what I had abstained from was available in ludricous abundance come Easter Day.

Eventually I came to understand that Lent is actually something deeper and more profound than a temporary abstinence – being “good” for 40 days then returning to the “evil” beforehand. I promised myself that I would never again board the train of popular opinion and give something up for Lent …………. until this year.

There’s a story behind this (always is).

Fags.

In the words of the Rolf Harris Song – ” I never gargled, I never gambled , I never smoked at all, Uhh Ohh , until I met my two good Amigos Nick-o-Teen and Al-K-Hol ” . Well, the latter of these has never been a problem, but my good Amigo , Nick-O-Teen, has come of age and needs to be packed off !

Problem is – I love him. Not all the time of course, but first thing in the morning, looking out at the stars at night, when I’m in a tizz – good old Nick just does it every time.

Gosh how times have changed. As a boy I remember that all the adults I knew were smokers. It was cool when I was a teenager. When I was in the army and assigned to fire off 500 rounds from a general purpose machine gun at night – a fag in the corner of my mouth – I was, Clint Eastwood, John Wayne – I was MEGA cool.

But I’m 46 now, and the world has changed – people even object to us smokers smoking outside – and I rarely smoke in public in my clerical collar – I know that Fr’s Ted and Jack do, but of course they aren’t real (are they?). With a new baby, and grown up children nagging me, I have decided that Nick has to go – and I start packing his bags tomorrow.

I have tried , succeed and failed before – but this time I am determined to say good bye to a good friend. I have a new weapon in my armoury – some herbal pills called Tabex that replace nicotine and are reputedly 73% effective. The best thing is that poor old Nick doesn’t have to be shown the door immediately. He carries on living with me for the first three days – thereafter the build up of the herbs (which mimic nicotine) are such that if I light up I will probably be sick !

I really want it to work this time, and intend to do a daily update on my blog – but please, shhhhhh – don’t tell poor Nick.

 

 

 

 

 

OEC Kite Awards

THE OEC KITE AWARDS 2012

 

Kind Intent Towards Everyone

 

 

Awarding up to £10,000

 

The OEC KITE awards are for young people who are working hard to achieve one or more of the following: peace, reconciliation, justice, a fair distribution of resources, care for the poor – the homeless – refugees, care for the sick – the elderly – the housebound, care for animals and the environment, good relations between those of different faiths – cultures – ethnic groups – persuasions – circumstances, care for those who suffer discrimination, a positive effect in their community, inclusivity.

This may be in their local community, at their school or college or beyond.

 

Each recipient will receive an award towards the work or project for which they are responsible, as well as being featured on the KITE award page of this web site. Applicants can either nominate themselves or be nominated They must be aged between 10 and 18 at the time of the application

 

A description of themselves and their work must be submitted The value of the award will depend on the age of the applicant and the work/project/scheme with which they are involved.  Exceptional OEC KITE awards of greater value, will be issued for work/projects that are viewed as having had and/or going to have the greatest positive effect.

 

The Awards will be presented on Remembrance Sunday 2012, in the hope that they will encourage young people to contribute towards communities and a world of peace, justice and harmony.

 

The Open Episcopal Church wishes to recognise, honour and inspire young people whose goals and aspirations are selfless and to re-awaken in society the virtue of a life spent in the service of others.

 

The Open Episcopal Church is a member of The International Council of Community Churches and so the World Council of Churches

 

 

Terms and conditions apply 

1. Applications must provide the following details: The person’s name, address, telephone number and where applicable, mobile number and email address.  The school or college the person attends or their employment status.  A description of the project of not less than 250 words. All these details can be sent by post to The OEC Kite Awards, Bishops Haven, 105 Danson Crescent, Welling, DA162AS  or by email to OEC KITE AWARDS

2.The  awards will be made on Remembrance Day 2012. The decision of the Archbishop’s Council of the Open Episcopal Church will be final.

3.The Open Episcopal Church and any sponsors of the awards may publicise details of the recipients of the awards and the work for which they have gained their awards.

4.The Open Episcopal Church expects the recipients of the awards to provide a progress report about their work after 6 months and a description of how they have used the award.

Gay Dean to sue Church of England after twice being rejected as Bishop.

My blog is never intended to be a forum to bash the Church of England – after all I am a teeny fish in the same pond and there’s more of them than me. I have no axe to grind with these sad souls (the power people of the C of E) – BUT come on boys (sorry – can’t say girls too because – well that’s another are of discrimination) – get your arrogant heads out of your mitres and face the REAL  world.

The C of E may be the titanic branch of Christianity within these shores – but size isn’t everything – look what happened to the Titanic – there are only so many icebergs that can be struck.

The point here is not about Jeffrey John’s sexuality, neither is it about “promotion”, it is about blatant discrimination, double standards and – once again in my blog I am compelled to use the “B” word – BIGOTRY.

Jeffrey John has committed a fatal error, as far as the C of E  is concerned. He’s been honest, honest about his sexuality, honest about his personal life – and it is because of that a brilliant priest continues to be bashed by the establishment.

You see the way the C of E works is as follows – if you want to be yourself, and being yourself might possibly rock the boat – just keep quiet – be yourself behind the Rectory doors. Don’t flaunt and advertise it and you will be OK. Your clergy colleagues, even your Bishop and other senior staff might know what “being yourself” means – BUT  as long as you are discreet – I’ll let you into a secret – they will turn a blind eye. Of course once discretion no longer exists – perhaps you have decided to be open and honest, or the churchwarden catches a glimpse of you being yourself through the crack in the net curtains – its then that all hell breaks loose – suddenly they no longer turn a blind eye – all sorts of emergency meetings are organised amongst senior staff – they offer you pastoral support – whilst at the same time rapidly disassociating themselves with the “you” that has “come out” or been found out.

In the newspaper reports dealing with this story, we hear that in the process of the various meetings as to whether Jeffrey should have been elevated to mitre-don,  dear old Rowan (AB of C) became rather hot under the collar – moody – even angry. I don’t know the truth of this, I wasn’t there, but I wouldn’t be surprised. Bishops in the Church of England are rarely appointed these days for their pastoral ability – most of them have previously been Archdeacons, who tradition has it don’t go to heaven as they are the rottweilers of clergy discipline. Bishop’s these days are appointed because they can tow the political line, and keep the Titanic afloat – rather than be a kind, caring shepherd to their flock.

I really do hope and pray that something comes of this proposed action and that it shakes up an establishment that so wants to reach out to ALL but in reality would prefer to reach out only to those who fit the membership criteria of this exclusive club.

 

New Year, Old Ideas, New Thoughts – an Inspiration !

Last Christmas my wife, Natasha, very kindly bought me an Amazon Kindle, so I spent Christmas day evening downloading a library of books to read, and came across this little thought-provoking gem. It doesn’t really introduce any new ideas – as “self help” books go it makes some fairly well known , tried and tested suggestions, but buts them into a succinct and thought provoking format. I found the book an inspiration! Although it is not a spiritual book, I read it with my own spiritual life and development in the background, and found the three indicators of “The Poverty Mentality” bringing about new thoughts and ideas – particularly in relation to what holds us all back in life from reaching our full potential, whether that potential is in our career, our relationships or, most important for me, our vocations.

I saw the ideas given as easily transferrable to our Spiritual journeys and would paraphrase the Author’s ideas thus:

We are held back from being ourselves, and reaching a deeper understanding of who we are and our potential when we :

1) Blame Others

2) Blame Circumstances

3) Do Nothing

I like that, and it resonates with me. So many times in my life I have fallen foul of these entrapments – of course sometimes unknowingly, but reading this book was like a bolt from the blue as I saw situations and decisions made within a mindset of one or all of the above thought processes. Of course there is more to this little book than these three facets that produce the poverty mentality, and I would highly recommend it.

So, Thank you to the Author, Ansaa Baiju, for her thoughtful insights – and a good set of New Year’s resolutions for me personally to try never to blame others or circumstances and never to sit and do nothing.

Happy New Year !

 

 

Protestants aren’t proper Christians, says Pope

According to the Daily Mail, the Holy Father suggests that unless we are, in the words of Bryan Ferry “In with the IN crowd”, we aint proper Christians. Now, far be it for me to agree with the views of the tabloid press, but on this occasion I admit defeat.

Cardinal Ratzinger, aka Pope Benedict, has begun 2012 by further distancing the “church” from humanity – in the words of Captain Mainwaring “you stupid boy !” Still, he is getting on a bit, and may not be thinking straight.

Pope Benedict is suggesting that unless we embrace HIS twist on Christianity, we are NOT real Christians – I am considering sending him a copy of the Bible that clearly states that all we have to do is believe – in believing we don’t have to denounce contraception, femininity, sexuality – the list is endless………………………I am sorry, just because I prefer PG Tips, it doesn’t make me a “non-tea drinker”. PG Tips is as much tea as any other, its just the blend that differs.

Jesus left this world (in physical form at least) telling his disciples – his mates, his buddies to ” Go, make disciples of ALL nations (meaning all people)”  - unless I am reading my Bible incorrectly He didn’t intend this command to be simply to one particular group.  After all , surely if this were the preserve of the Roman Church – would they have allowed it to be included in the Bible in the first place? Shh – don’t leak bits that MIGHT be for others too.

The point is that Christianity is NOT NOT NOT about exclusivity. It is NOT NOT NOT about one interpretation of the faith. The Holy Father may well command considerable respect throughout the Catholic world – but on this point (and sadly many others) he has so sadly GOT IT WRONG AGAIN.

I am so sorry, Joseph Ratzinger (Aka Papa Benedict) BUT you need to read your Bible – EVERY person who acknowledges even the existence of Jesus is empowered to spread His word, and to share dialogue, prayer and fellowship with others. When two or three meet together with this common goal (regardless of their “brand” of faith) the definition of that gathering and likemindedness is “church”. Yes, I know that “Apostolic Succession” is important (It is to me too) BUT my Baptist, Anglican, Methodist, Free Church, Amish, etc etc sisters and brothers are just as much CHURCH as you and I -

Holy Father, the Bible is in the Post.